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    ATTACHING TO THE OUTCOME

    Because when you are attached to the outcome you start to ‘predict’ how things should go as if this world is linear

    This linear thinking blocks you from taking aligned action and as a result, you stifle your creativity

    The attachment to the outcome is part of your rationale tendency and unintentionally moves you further away from achieving your goals.

    When you’re attached to an outcome, you actually block your ability to achieve your goals, feel supported and co-create with the Universe.

    So what do you do instead?

    Detach.

    Detachment reduces

    ✅ Stress

    ✅ Anger

    ✅ Anxiety

    Detachment is based on faith and assurance that what you have is already yours

    It takes trust as well as a balance of emotions.

    Detaching can be a tricky thing to navigate if you’re high achieving because high achievers self-acceptance is continuously conditioned onto the next success

    This is how I detach

    1: Recognise that there is an attachment in the first place and implement dialectal behaviour therapy tools to reframe

    2. Use recovery to let it go with prayer, breathwork, hypnosis or EFT

    3.Remember that Universe/God is my source not people and I am fully supported and my happiness is not dependent on that thing

    It’s tricky but not impossible, that is why I created Unapologetically Visible that helps you to reprogram the attachments that have you predicting instead of enjoying the process so you can pioneer ahead

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