How To Stop Comparing Yourself To Others & Ramp Up Your Visibility

First of all let’s talk about the elephant in the room

What happens when you stop comparing yourself to others?

👉 When you stop comparing, you stop looking for answers outside of yourself, buying coaching and courses from a place of fear (not the expansive fear type) but instead from a place of overflow.

👉 You stop seeking help outside of yourself from emotionally unavailable coaches, healers, service providers who don’t love themselves so sure heck couldn’t love you, let alone celebrate you.

👉 You stop judging and start observing, being a witness and no longer a victim.

👉 You allow things to flow and don’t see a launch as the source of your income, but realise God is your source and everything else is a vessel.

👉 You start to show up in your business not concerned who was watching or not, knowing that you are committed to the process of serving no matter what.

When you accept who you are then you can change, it’s personal acceptance before personal development.


The guaranteed method to stop comparing

💜Acceptance of self 💜

Even to the point of accepting that you compare, but know that you won’t be comparing forever.

From that space, you can work on building a healthier self-image which isn’t dependent on performance and isn’t swayed by negative self-talk (self-inflicted or otherwise).

👏It’s about remembering who you are, not forgetting because only by remembering can you begin to heal which is part of your acceptance journey

👏Your perceived weakness will become a strength when you start to embrace it, not ignore it.

👏That’s when consistent visibility instead of consistent comparison happens.

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In this video I share 3 specific things you can do to cultivate that acceptance piece

When you become consistently visible from a place of positive self-image you gain an inner knowing that your business, your message, your whole being is supported and what you desire is already yours.

❤️Knowing that the Universe is not in love with the future you but who you’re now.❤️

Until to learn to accept all of you, the light and the dark you will continue to feed the comparison monster and it will continue to take over your soul.

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This masterclass is an excellent way to experience what it’s like working with me. It will clear your misconceptions about visibility (answer the questions with clarity). In this empowering masterclass, you’ll also get to learn Ruth-Ellen’s most effective visibility framework…

Your self-image can be shifted rapidly through my UV program where I reprogram your subconscious mind and teach you the tools to show up unapologetically

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  • Spend less than 60 minutes with me where I will help you to brainstorm so you create a 90-day visibility plan that actually leads to sales 
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