Jealous Much? How To Fix That In An Instant #childsplay

Have you ever seen a car you have wanted drive by and park close to where you’re at, and when the person gets out of the car, you feel a little resentment towards that person? Has that ever happened to you? Or, if and when you were single, you saw this handsome man in a restaurant sitting, then his wife or girlfriend walks up and sits down and the same thing happens, you hate the girl for having the guy? To me and many other humans, it is only natural to feel resentment or hatred towards those who have nice or attractive things and people in their lives?

I know I used to be guilty of this. I had to learn that if I ever expected to have those things in my life, that I would have to shift my way of thinking. If there is a person that is having great results in business, better than my results, I had to learn to be happy and excited for that person instead of feeling jealousy and envy for what she has.
In Huna Philosophy, which is better known as Hawaiian spiritualism, it is understood that when you see something you want, bless it and bless that person who has it. If it is that new car you desire, bless that car and bless the person driving it. If it is the beautiful man you want, bless the handsome man and the woman beside him. By doing this, you attract these things into your life.

We’ve all been there (just some of us are more honest about owning it). When you feel that low vibration, smile and learn that the universe is telling you that yours is coming so bless others so nothing blocks it.

Bless others and you will be blessed x

For bonus points – Write or send a short letter to tell people how much you bless and acknowledge them – you don’t have to send it, choose someone who is successful in any arena

Follow the 6 other Huna principles 

Here’s to staying confident consistently ✊

Ruth-Ellen Henry – Your Get More Sales & Confidence Coach

P.S. 90 Days To Sales Mastery is now open to help you get what you want with the focus you need, book a slot to find out how I have helped companies generate over £120m in new business with these strategies.

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