For too long, I have avoided this conversation
When I really should have been embracing it
I am queen through and through
Does that mean I am devoid of feelings
Heck no
It just means I am…a straight shooter
Don’t want to sit around a circle with other women and sing coom by ah
I mean I get it
You want to bond
Here is how I bond
I give constructive feedback that will help you to improve and also elevate you so that you are up for the challenge
I have conversations that don’t (just) involve us crying with no destination
Crying is a form of release
I mean I am not saying you should avoid your feelings
Acknowledge that shit
Process it
Dissect it
Analyse it
So that you deal with that feeling like you just found it watching inappropriate stuff online
Wearing my crown as a queen means
I like to call you out
For example
If my friend says he is tired and wants to go home I say ok wet wipe
Let me walk you home
Funnily enough, he then has another drink
Is that manipulative
Nope
I know him
I love him so I know that calling him a wet wipe is like water off ducks back
I don’t believe in rocking myself in the corner and thinking why doesn’t he want to hang and overanalyzing that conversation when he said this but he meant that.
That shit is draining.
So I am a queen for being assertive
Call me a bitch…
Whatever helps you sleep at night
You keep putting your labels on me
I will be too busy doing me
While you who label me
Keep watching me
Because my actions will speak louder than my words
Don’t be scared to walk alone
Don’t be scared to like it
Sometimes a walk alone can mean that you take your own path
Remember life is like an amusement park, enjoy the ride!
Ruth-Ellen
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