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Other people’s judgement currency won’t pay for your peace


I don’t like horrors they give me anxiety ⠀

So obviously I had to watch one lol 😂 ⠀

There’s something about facing my fears and facing the ‘bogeyman’ that actually calms my soul 🤷‍♀️⠀

So I watched Halloween 🎃 ⠀

Because in my 40 years on this planet I thought this was one of the creepiest movie ⠀

And I still don’t get it ⠀

People don’t just go around with no motives killing people (btw PC brigade keep it moving this isn’t for you🙄) ⠀

And so this guys motivation as the ‘bad guy’ was weak⠀

The world wants to tell you that everything is black and white, good and bad, right and wrong ⠀

That the bad guys wear masks 🎭 and are tall and strong but that’s not the case ⠀

If psychology, spirituality and being a world changer has taught us anything we know that there is more to the human mind & behaviour than that ⠀

Subconsciously we take on other people’s judgements about how we live our lives and allow it to affect how we see ourselves

Other people’s judgement currency, won’t pay for your peace

Ruth-Ellen – Labels are for jars, not people

We need to think of ourselves as souls that are filled with peace

The more we have peace the more we can transmute the dark and turn it into light

Ultimately we want to create peace currency

Peace of mind

Peace with the actions we take

Peace with our finances

Peace for the world

But when we take someone else’s perception of who they want us to be we dishonour ourselves ⠀

And that doesn’t give us the peace we desire

Our business is an extension of who we are

And if our self image is a distorted version of who we are then our business is out of alignment

When our business is out of alignment, it no longer feels like joy

Because our business is no longer us

So in order to get back into alignment

We must get back to us

And that goes back to being at peace

So how do you claim your peace?

  1. You become still and listen to your own inner voice through using tools like visualization, meditation, shadow work, journeying
  2. You drop the layers of baggage that weren’t even yours in the first place using tools like timeline therapy, hypnotherapy, EFT
  3. You start to accept & trust yourself, knowing you have all the answers within because you are enough through DBT tools



Ultimately you start to honour who you REALLY are

Because you’re not someone else’s plot holed filled story ⠀

You create your own stories that empower you ⠀

Stories that make you the lead actress, director, producer ⠀

You collect the box office takings including the sponsorship and special appearance fees⠀

And you stop playing a part in your business that makes no fucking sense⠀ ⠀

Let me be clear Halloweens protagonist makes no sense ⠀ ⠀

There I said it Michael Myers character in Halloween makes no sense ⠀ ⠀

I mean come on…the guy walks at a pace of a tortoise with a missing leg (so yes super slow) how is everyone still able to be caught so easily 🤦‍♀️smh ⠀ ⠀

Let’ face our fears and pick holes in these stories rather than keep on running away from them because they are too “dark”⠀ ⠀

And we are supposed to be “love and light”⠀ ⠀

I know as a world changer you have a mission and it doesn’t serve you to be human vacuum (sucking up all the worlds darkness) and that is exactly why you need to face the dark so it can flow through you and not get stuck in you, so you can transmute it for good. ⠀ ⠀

Ready to release yourself from hours of internet-stalking; comparing your business (and life) to everyone else?

Then get ready to obsess over your brilliance and say goodbye to that comparison monster.

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Next on my list is that f*cking stupid clown 🤡 IT now this one has major plot holes and it had me scared of clowns for the longest time not anymore 😳

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